Happy Valentine’s Day!
Today is supposed to be about love, happiness, candy, cards, and chocolate…lots and lots of chocolate!
However, I personally do not “celebrate” Valentine’s Day. It has become so retail and commercialized because no one really knows the TRUE meaning of expressing love.
Now, I’m not talking about the true purpose behind Valentine’s Day. As far as I’m concerned, it’s right up there with Sweetest Day; it’s just another day for retailers to rack up sales and make a profit. Not that I’m against the holiday. I’m just FOR showing love…real love…true love…UNCONDITIONAL LOVE 24/7/365 (366 during leap year)!
So…exactly what is this phenomena known as “unconditional love”? While it’s difficult to put into words, I’ll do my best to make it as clear-cut as possible.
Unconditional love is simply this: knowing and ACCEPTING a person, flaws and all, for their TRUE BEING. That means, no matter if they are tall or short, light or dark, broke or rich, happy or sad, on top of the world or carrying the world on their shoulders…you know them, you accept them, and you appreciate them without any alterations, adjustments, or strings attached.
Yet, before you can have this unconditional love for anyone else, you must FIRST have this type of love for YOURSELF! You have to be able to look in the mirror, BUK-KED NAKED, stare into your OWN eyes and love EACH AND EVERY SINGLE PART OF YOU…INSIDE AND OUT!!! From your eyes to your thighs. Your lips to your hips. Your hair to your heels. You need to love, accept, and appreciate YOURSELF before you can do that for anyone else…or expect anyone else to do that for you.
The true essence of unconditional love is a rarity…almost as rare as finding a normal person with common sense, natural happiness, and a clean spirit. We all have personal gripes about ourselves. Either we’re not tall enough, thin enough, muscular enough, have too much hair, not enough hair, this, that, the other, blah, blah, blah! We are so determined to find something WRONG with our being that we never take time to appreciate what’s RIGHT. But guess what?! EVERYTHING IS RIGHT! There isn’t a flaw on your body because God doesn’t make FLAWED BEINGS! WE as humans CREATE these FLAWS and place them upon ourselves and others as LIMITATIONS! This distracts us from our true purpose in life and keeps us off-focus! No wonder we find it so hard to love others; we can’t even find it within us to LOVE OURSELVES!
…and there it is!
Have you ever wondered what the “secret to life” is? Have you ever wondered how to attract and manifest your deepest desires in life? Have you ever wished you knew how to have a happy, blissful, fulfilling life?!
Well…ladies and gentlemen…you just find it.
The “secret” is no secret. There’s no need to wonder any further. You CAN have that happy, blissful, fulfilling life. How?
U-N-C-O-N-D-I-T-I-O-N-A-L ~ L-O-V-E
That’s all it takes. When you love yourself unconditionally, you open yourself up to blessings, abundance, gratitude, appreciation, giving, and receiving. When you love yourself unconditionally, it becomes easier…and even second nature…to love others unconditionally. When you love yourself unconditionally, you are reflecting God-like love which can NEVER be flawed, forced, faked, or forsaken!
So today, tomorrow, next week, next month, next year, next decade, even next lifetime…love yourself UNCONDITIONALLY! Only then will you be open, willing, and able to receive all that you need, want, and desire ABUNDANTLY!
I love you all unconditionally!
Rockstarr ~ Over & Out